Things Not Said

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Lin-Manuel Miranda and His Unknown Neighbor

Photographed by Jubei Raziel

Photographed by Jubei Raziel

I‘m relaxing on my parents couch fighting post-dinner drowsiness when a documentary about Broadway’s hit show, Hamilton, begins on the television. My parents are always watching PBS but I rarely, if ever, do and I‘m too lazy to reach for the remote to change it over to ESPN.

Hamilton’s America is the feature. It’s the development and production of the Broadway show through its creator, Lin-Manuel Miranda. The name didn’t resonate with me but I found the documentary pretty interesting given how little I know about how Broadway shows are created. While watching, my mom walks into the living room, takes a glance at the television and casually asks, “Oh, you remember Lin?” as if I had intentionally tuned in to watch because of him.

A bit confused, my mind quickly raced in an attempt to identify who the hell this guy was and why my mom knew him. Nevertheless, she asked me if I remembered him.

After a few moments of silence, my mom tells me, “He was the kid next door… your neighbor.”

I grew up in Northern Manhattan on a pretty isolated street in a unique neighborhood. My dad was the superintendent where our family lived and throughout the years, my family got well acquainted with everyone throughout the community. My brother and I often played pick-up ball at the local park and street football with the neighborhood guys. Most of the us played in Inwood Little League, parents coached, likewise, we all went to the same local churches, middle schools and high schools.

In retrospect, my teenage years were actually quite magical. Inwood was the community I grew up in, and for the most part, I knew nearly everyone. However, what I couldn’t figure out for the life of me was why I couldn’t recall my own neighbor!

I grew up next door to Lin-Manuel Miranda and his family… literally. Lin was that strange kid who wore dark clothes, a beanie hat and always wore headphones, walking to the beat of whatever he was listening to. Every once a while my mom encouraged me to be friends with him but as a kid I was reluctant towards “forcing” something like that. I‘m not exactly the “impeding” type, especially with someone who usually appeared disinterested with the world around him. Lin walked right past my bedroom window everyday like clockwork exactly the same way. I never saw him anywhere else, let alone, playing ball or hanging out with the rest of “us” in the neighborhood (although we actually know the same people in neighborhood).

I knew Lin’s father, he was always a kind man who said “hi” to me occasionally whenever he saw me cleaning the front of my building (yes, I helped my dad with his duties). Lin’s mom was a quiet woman and I recall Lin’s babysitter, grandmother and aunt who visited them regularly. Funny enough, the Miranda family’s backyard and mine connected (they were separated by a couple scalable fences) and I’d often jump into their yard to retrieve a ball that got accidentally hit or kick into it while playing around. During winter months, I’d help shovel the front of my building, and when necessary, cleared a path down the hill to the front of Lin’s house to help our building tenants walk to and fro from work — to minimize any risk of slips and falls.

Needless to say, Lin’s dad, Luis, and aunt would talk with my mom occasionally whenever she walked our dog. My mom and Luis (both Puerto Rican) even had a mutual friend, Euclid Mejia, who was the principle of the high school I attended (George Washington High School), but me? I don’t think I ever said a word to Lin and I don’t think Lin even knew of my existence. I reached out and asked my sister if she remembered him or ever spoke to him. She responded with, “That weird kid who never said anything?” I laughed, but I needed to see if my siblings (I got the same response from my brother) might have possibly crossed paths with Lin at some point but nope, never.

I’m sitting in my parent’s living room watching Hamilton’s America in disbelief. That lone strange boy I would always see walk past my window would go on to become an extraordinary visionary and lyricists.

I find it beautiful and exciting, yet sad, because for someone I would see regularly, we were worlds apart.

I’m not going to chastise my teenage self for never attempting to introduce myself to Lin, but life is interesting and ironic that way. Funny enough, six degrees of separation continues to tease. A personal friend of mine turned out to be the set nurse on the movie, The Return of Mary Poppins. She and Lin shared some laughs. Another friend actually helped with the launch party of Hamilton and the two got to hang out. Occasionally, I’ll also see Lin or his dad in passing since we all relatively live in the same area. Like my teenage self, I keep it quiet and moving (It’s a New York thing). What’s encouraging though is that Lin and I both turned out to be creative. More specifically, I discovered we both write… a lot. We’re both storytellers, though, we use different mediums. Sure, it may be coincidence but considering the circumstances, it’s welcoming. And what compelled me to write this article.

You see, we’re always pushing to elevate our careers, perhaps campaigning to get financed for a start-up, or find that right person who could give us our “big break” but — in all likelihood — we may be looking in the wrong places. It’s fascinating how we typically pursue the iconic people (like celebrities and the wealthy) while overlooking the people around us.

The reality could be that the success we eagerly seek may lie in exploring those close to us and connecting with them.

Yes, horizons are beautiful to gaze at and dream about. We imagine all the wonderful possibilities that await us in life. We romance at the thought of meeting that one person who could radically change our lives for the better. But maybe, just maybe, we need to do less gazing at that crystal ball lying on that faraway line and more engagement with the people we commonly cross paths with.

I’m proud of Lin-Manuel Miranda and his re-imagination of storytelling through the fusion of lyrics and Hip Hop. I congratulate him on his wonderful successes and wish him many more. His journey remains an inspiration to me and his successes continue to motivate me. For this unknown Inwood neighbor, I hope to get the chance to connect with Lin one day and get to know the quiet boy who lived next door. With that, I encourage you all to embark on the adventure of discovering your neighbors. Who knows what amazing opportunities await you by this overlooked yet pleasant commodity.

By the way, if for any reason you’re reading this Lin, Hi.